Becoming a Man

I am 41 years old. At this age, I understand many things about life. I know what I am, what I am not, what I have become and what I want to become. Life is not over until you decide it is over. No matter the age, it is all in your mind and in your beliefs and the experiences you have had. I must say that I am finally becoming the man I want to be. Deeper in myself I am finding myself and building myself to reach a different kind of potential that I have never had before. I know I can do many things and experience many situations in life. The most important aspect of my life is that I am becoming a man.

As a man, it is our duty to provide, be strong, be powerful, solid, spectaluarly resilient and relentless. Being a man is to serve your community in the best interest of everyone while keeping yourself in check and becoming what you want to become. Being a man is understanding that there are situations in life where you will yourself to be fragile and you will have to build yourself up every time. It is knowing that you will fall many many times, but you will always get back up one more time. No matter where you are and with whoever you are with, being a man is to be authentic while respecting everyone. I can become anything I want while knowing that I am not ok being who I am right now. I must progress always. I need to be and work myself up every single day. If I want to be the man the worlds needs me to be, I will continue working on myself becuase my family, my wife and my son deserve the best version of myself. Becoming a man is understanding that you will never ever stop building yourself up. There will always be a better version of yourself and new experiences to live. I am a man who knows and undertands all these things. And even more so, I know it takes time and effort to push hard and make things happen. Becoming a man is to become a solid human being in all different aspects of life. It is to be tough and stronger than ever before no matter what. Becoming a man is to become the best version of ourselves in every aspect of life. Challenges and experiences will always be lessons to learn and use them as an opportunity to continue to grow and excel in every opportunity.

At 41 years old, I am not done yet. There is so much that I still have to give and provide to the world. I can see myself growing and excelling in so many things that sometimes I feel like I do not have enough time. I have to be careful, too. I must take care of my family and serve my community. And most importantly, I have to be what I came to this world to be. Becoming a man is not just growing old, having a job and providing for my family. It is also about working on yourself to leave this place in a better shape that it was. I am whole and absolute. I can be anything I want to be and take care of myself and my family. I understand many things and have lived many experiences. I see clearly now. There is so much of the world I have not seen yet and I have so much to give. The only way I can leave this world is by becoming the best version of myself without any regrets. In order for me to achieve this is by understanding that I must love and be myself with all my heart. I am authentic now and I know what I want. I have to work for it. I am working for it now. I am growing and becoming a stronger person and more realiable individual. I am more sincere and more loving and authentic. I am passionate and real. There is nothing in this world that will stop me now in my pursuit to becoming a man becuase I am a man.

Published by Lucio Gutierrez

I'm Mexican-Canadian. I work on software development and technical trading. Innovator and seasoned fullstack software developer. Passionate about globalization of software and the study of the financial markets to generate wealth. Extremely effective and efficient in multidisciplinary team work. I'm brutally honest, composed and responsible in life. I love my family very much.

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